Friday, 30 August 2013
Girls under restriction
We feel proud saying there is no single profession where we can’t see girls. In every profession women are at the utmost position from conductor to entrepreneur. They are changing the conscience of male dominant country like India, that they also can do anything that men can and suddenly ……..something disgraceful, shameful happened in the place which we used to call safest place in India for girls. Yes I’m talking about Mumbai.
One day I asked my friends that how many of them never experienced the eve teasing. But unfortunately no one said they are safe in their hometown. One of my friend said,” every girl is a victim of eve teasing one or the other way but she never confront it considering what people will think and its always about losing respect when you say you are a victim.” One friend told me she carry knife while travelling long distance.
Thursday, 29 August 2013
Wednesday, 28 August 2013
Why is the Rupee falling so rapidly against the Dollar?
After two weeks I'm writing a blog. Since i was finding some topic to write on. but i realized the crisis that India is facing now is continuously falling value of rupee. It is one of the dark topic so i thought every one should know why Indian rupee loosing its value and what we can do for it.
Money is not an organic creature but its value keeps changing with the
society and its economic conditions. One rupee in 1947 is not the same as one rupee
today, both in terms of appearance and purchasing power.
The value of a country's currency is linked with its economic conditions
and policies.
“The value of a currency depends on factors that affect the economy such
as imports and exports, inflation, employment, interest rates, growth rate, trade deficit, performance of equity markets,
foreign exchange reserves, macroeconomic policies, foreign investment inflows,
banking capital, commodity prices and geopolitical conditions," says
Pramit Brahmbhatt, chief executive officer, Alpari Financial Services (India),
a foreign exchange brokerage.
It is
actually quite simple. Less the dollar in indian market, more will be its value
and that means downfall of rupee because as of today you are paying 68
rupees for 1 dollar.Now, we should go into the reasons for the same-
The most
important thing that India imports is crude oil – we import crude oil from
countries like Saudi Arabia, Iraq, Venezuela etc. and these countries don’t
accept the Indian Rupee for payments, they want us to pay them in an
internationally accepted currency like the USD or Euro. It would have been
great if these countries accepted the Indian Rupee but they don't and India
can’t print the USD or the Euro, so we have to rely on other means to get US
Dollars.
How do we get US Dollars?
There
are three main ways in which India gets USD. The first one is obvious enough, when we export goods and
services – we get paid in USD. The second one is also fairly obvious which is
investment. When foreign investors invest in India – they bring in USD and that’s
another way to get USD.
The third way which is not very apparent is
remittances - NRIs sending in money to India.
What do these things tell us?
These things tell us that it is absolutely
essential for us to have a steady flow of USD or other big currency coming in
the country in order to finance our oil bill and pay for our other imports, if
we run out of foreign exchange, we will be in big trouble because without oil,
nothing else will function.
The measure for whether this equation is fine or
not is called CAD (Current Account Deficit), which is largely the difference
between exports and imports and in India’s case, the CAD is becoming higher and
higher with each successive month, and this means that India’s foreign exchange
reserves are diminishing.
One of the big factors worsening India’s CAD are
the ever increasing gold and oil imports. The festival of Akshaya Tritiya
contributed to heavy imports recently, and that in turned made the CAD even
worse. If India spends USD on gold then that reduces the forex reserves for
other important commodities like oil. Now reducing dependency on oil is not
easy and hence reducing its import is not easy.
Theoretically, if there were no gold imports then
that would eliminate the burden on forex reserves, and in a way it will help
the Indian economy. However, you can’t eliminate gold imports completely
because a lot of people depend on gold jewelry and investments for their
livelihood, and India has always imported gold.
So, the problem then is not so much gold imports
but the great pace at which these imports have increased in recent years, and
the pressure it is putting on the foreign exchange reserves, and the worsening
CAD.
Will stopping gold imports help the Indian economy?
The answer to this question is simple – no, simply
stopping gold imports will not help the Indian economy because a lot of people
depend on gold for their livelihood, and they need gold imports to remain in
business and survive.
Will slowing down gold imports help – yes I
believe they will help because they wouldn’t be such a big drain on our forex
reserves and that will be great.
However, the recent rise in gold imports have been
investment driven and that is largely due to the rise in gold prices, and a
lack of other investment alternatives available to Indians.
What we need is a better investment climate that
helps people get other alternates to gold for investment, and that also helps
with the other factors that I wrote about above related to bringing in foreign
exchange in the country. You want a climate where exports rise (services
exports declined last month), foreign investments come into the country – both
in the form of FDI and FII, and all that in turns help the CAD.
Now on a lighter note, the following joke is the
most hilarious one I've read in a long time.
"The only time the Indian Rupee goes up is
during a Toss."
The
INDIAN economy is in a crisis and if we do not take proper steps to control
those, we will be in a critical situation. More than 30,000 crore rupees of
foreign exchange are being siphoned out of our country on products such as
cosmetics, snacks, tea, beverages, etc. which are grown, produced and consumed
here.
A cold drink that costs only 70 / 80 paise to
produce, is sold for Rs.10 and a major chunk of profits from these are sent
abroad. This is a serious drain on INDIAN economy.
What you can do about it?
Buy only products manufactured by WHOLLY INDIAN COMPANIES.
Each individual should become a leader for this awareness. This is the only way
to the country from severe economic crisis. You don't need to give-up your
lifestyle. You just need to choose an alternate product.
Daily products which are COLD DRINKS,BATHING SOAP
,TOOTH PASTE,TOOTH BRUSH ,SHAVING CREAM,BLADE, TALCUM POWDER ,MILK POWDER
,SHAMPOO , Food Items etc. All you need to do is buy Indian Goods.
Wednesday, 14 August 2013
Can’t Imagine a Life without Internet
Have you ever felt absolutely alone, as if the world
has come to an end, and time has stood still?
Yes, that is exactly how I felt when my MTNL internet connection decided to
take a break last night exactly when the clock struck 12. I being a night
creature was left stranded in a deserted
island. Everyone was asleep, I had finished all the good books, could
not find the newspaper.
I tried to play
Angry Birds but every few seconds I kept checking for the little blue blinking sign that shows
whether the internet is up again. Alas, my hopes were dashed.
I finally woke up with important questions
What did people do back in days when
there was no internet?
How did everyone pass their time?
How did people know what is going on in the world?
How did people work from home?
How did they get important work done when there was no email?
How did everyone pass their time?
How did people know what is going on in the world?
How did people work from home?
How did they get important work done when there was no email?
For someone like me for whom the internet going down
is a scarier phenomenon than apocalypse, I can’t help wondering what people
used to do in pre internet era. The first word comes in mouth when internet is down
is” WTF”. I can’t imagine a life without internet thinking how people “had a
life” (a very direct reference to my obsession with the computer, laptop,
smartphone and the internet). And when I put on detective caps on to see what people
do when internet is down .
And here are the top things in our list!
Turn into a poet/Writer/Painter
What could be better than getting into the sad mood
while penning down lines for your lady love? Most of the people we know take out
their pen (writing pen don’t take different meaning.. P) and notebook (the real
notebook, with papers and all) and write lines or draw something on life and
sadness, the world and love and so on. And as soon as the internet comes back
to life, all that is heaped on their shelf. Love and life are not on top of
priority list after all.
Ransack the fridge and kitchen
This sin list includes me. Food and computers are
always in a race to get to the top of my list of favorite things in life. And
it happens with a lot of us. Care to disagree with me? Well, try not to run to
your kitchen the next time you take a break from the computer.
Call up the service provider and get crazy
This should actually be the first thing
you do, but we generally take a food break when the signal goes down. Once when
the internet went down for more than half an hour, my friend called up the
infamous service provider but the answering machine said,” Ap katar mehe apka
call hamareliye mahatvapurna he, shigrahi apka call hamare grahak pratinidhi ke
sath jod diya jayega.”and when a lady picked the call he gave her a piece of
his mind. It was a pretty impolite monologue. When finally after five minutes
of absolutely exhausting his vocabulary, he was consoled by the lady on the
line, he could mutter out a
thank you. People around him thought something really tragic had happened, the
way he was talking on the phone. His BP(blood pressure) must have risen
considerably during those precious waiting moments till the net turned back.
Go on a walk with your pets
Grumpy the cat would not do that with
you, but goofy the dog would love to drag you off the screen for some time.
Next time, don’t wait for him to bribe the service provider into cutting your
connection; take your dog on walks regularly.
Have a life
This includes meeting real people, going on a date with a real girl,
meeting up with friends in a bar and doing normal people stuff. Enjoying the
sunshine and rain and sometimes the winter chilly winds. But yes, it means
getting up from the chair and getting in touch with the real world.
Sleep
Though this might not sound exciting,
but a computer person (in my vocabulary, A computer person is one who is
perennially married to his/her computer/laptop/desktop and refuses to move
their bums from their chairs to even get a glass of water.) only leaves his
beloved computer to sleep or answer nature’s call. And when the internet goes
down, they get an excellent reason to reboot their brains with a long nap.
Curse, Abuse, Get violent
This paragraph has A Rating – At times
when a man/woman gets frustrated beyond measure they may resort to unusual
behavior like holding you by the collar and calling you ungodly names and
accuse you of stealing their only guilty pleasure in life – the internet. They
may also break a few pieces of furniture and demand the CIA or FBI or CID or
some high tech agency to look into the matter and get their connection fixed
immediately. In times like this, we suggest you take a chloroformed napkin and
knock the person unconscious till things return to normal.
Last
But Not the Least :P :D
If anyone asked you ,” Agar net
sachime chala gaya to hum kya karenge??”
Ans:-Hawan Karenge, Hawan Karenge….
Hehe…
Moral:-My research has shown that internet addicts are as
bad as drug addicts. Even
though people can be put into rehabs
where they can learn to live without those chemicals, it is next to impossible
to make us internet addicts live without this. And as far as “having a life” is
concerned, heaven forbid if we are forced to have one without the almighty
cyber world.
Monday, 12 August 2013
Engineering an "ENGINEERING"
Since I was thinking about next topic to write on, I thought
why don’t I write about Engineering an “Engineering”. Which means what I’ve
learned in engineering and what’s its impact on my life?
Engineering Facts..(The list is simply endless.. sorry if I missed
any)
·
After joining engineering. I really appreciate
my brain which is divided into two parts Right and left.
1. In Right nothing is left.
2. In left nothing is right.
·
The two special days you thank god
1. The day you enter the engineering
college
2. The day you passed and get out of
engineering college.
·
Your family members don’t consider you engineer
unless you don’t repair any of the home appliances.
·
Best English by Faculty in your college,
1.
Don’t try to talk in front of my back…!!.
2. Tomorrow call your
parents especially mother and father…!!!.
3. Don’t laugh at the back
benches...otherwise teeth and all will be fallen down..!!.
4. Principal, “No ragging
this college. Anybody rag we arrest the police”.
5. “Hey, from
tomorrow onward you both come together separately”.
6. Teacher, “Okay guys, all
of you stand in a straight circle!”
7. Teacher to boy, angrily:
I talk, he talk, why you middle-middle talk?
8. Both of you three stand
together separately.
9. Open the doors of the
window. Let the Air Force come in.
·
The income of Xerox owner is far more than what
you will earn after placement.
·
Engineering is impossible without cigarette, Daru,
weed, chillum.
·
You know you are in wrong class when more than
three students are female and they’re all hot.
Keeping aside all these stupid
facts I think every engineer ended up being the Aamir Khan of Ghajini, then
instead of “girlfriend was killed”, he would have “some
engineer was killed” written on his body, instead of planning a vengeance on
Ghajini, there would have been “Kill Professors” all over his body and finally
in place of all those numbers, addresses, dates etc, he would have the list of assignments to be submitted, the list of projects
to be completed and the most importantly “go…get yourself some sleep” engraved
on his body.
On another such occasion, friend once said “Yaar, it would be so wonderful if the
2012 prediction becomes a reailty….we can at least save ourselves from the
dilemma of MS or MBA.”
One simple straightforward
reason that I could find for such thoughts was frustration. Frustration in
itself appears something which everyone have in their life. But
frustration from the perspective of an engineer is something different. I have
learnt about this only after I started my journey to become one of those lakhs
of engineers our country produces every year.
Every engineer is frustrated due to many reasons some
of those im listing below:-
Absence of girlfriend in life (a prime
reason for most of my friends)…..Lack of taste and even quality in the
canteen food…..Slow surfing and downloading speeds….The
canteen getting closed early …..Inexplicable course load…..classes,
assignments, labs etc …..Absence of sufficient holidays or professor taking a
lecture on a holiday…..Not getting a chance to enjoy with friends during the
semester…..No good movies to watch…..The xerox facility or some necessity going
out of order…..No placement or a less pay package……
I could even find some worrying
too much about the problems of the society like rising onion prices, increasing
corruption and black money, India losing the match etc.
From serious real life troubles
to simple silly futile things, every now and then, every single moment, every
small damn thing ends up as a cause of worry for an engineer. Any small aberration from the routine appears as something monstrous
and troublesome for an engineer…..and the real big question is how does he get
out of this frustration, how does he deal with it, what can be the solution to
his problems, what could give him some peace of mind.
By pointing out the above
reasons, I am not saying that frustration is something a fellow who is weak in
his academics or sports, is facing. Each and every engineer has frustration.
Exactly 3 years ago, before coming to engineering college, I have just heard
this term just like any other regular English word. It was never such a
highlighted, much to be discussed about issue. But 8 semesters
down the line, I could hear this word being uttered by
every single friend of mine. Apparently there is no
such engineer here, who seems to be happy with how the things are going, how
the life is moving and how the semesters are passing by.
Frustration is a clear
reflection of various hardships or the mental tensions an engineer is subjected
to. There is no one who is like completely happy and untroubled. In fact I
would say, he who had never got frustrated during his graduation period, hasn’t
really experienced the true engineer life.
So what could
be the possible solution to such small but still serious problem…..???
A
change in the way you look at things….A change in the way you accept
things…..is very much necessary.
If you are being subjected to some unnecessary tensions or pressures, try to face and fight it…..never let it overpower you.
Unable to bear the loads….maintain some regularity, consistency and discipline in the study and preparation matters….automatically you will feel the difference.
If you are being subjected to some unnecessary tensions or pressures, try to face and fight it…..never let it overpower you.
Unable to bear the loads….maintain some regularity, consistency and discipline in the study and preparation matters….automatically you will feel the difference.
The
moment you become a pessimist, then frustration follows and further defeat
continues.
Try to look into the good in whatever you do or whatever is being done to/with you.
Take life positively…..it will immediately remove frustration from your dictionary.
Be the change that you wish to see….ending your troubles by mending your ways.
Try to look into the good in whatever you do or whatever is being done to/with you.
Take life positively…..it will immediately remove frustration from your dictionary.
Be the change that you wish to see….ending your troubles by mending your ways.
Moral:- Don’t take tension,
sutta maro , daru piyo and bolo “Majja ni life’”
Monday, 5 August 2013
First Wardrobe Malfunction ( Dropadi Chirharan)
Thoda itihas me jaya jaye, lets talk about the first ever
wardrobe malfunction, the draupadi chirharan, ye pehla wardrobe malfunction
tha, jo intentional tha on the part of model, ha publicity stunt jarur tha,
dushyashan ka, naito usase pehle unko kon janta tha. Ab apne dekha hoga
dushasan chir khich rahe the and dropadi aaaaa. Dropadi ne ek bar bhi dushasan
ko rokane ki koshish nai ki, dushasan kya kar rahe ho,bhagvan ke liye chod do.
Bhagvan ke liye bolti, bhagvan abhi jate, bhagvan sabha mehi bethe the, par nia
aaaa.jaise wo enjoy kar rahi he. Mano yash chopra ki muvi ka romantic song
shoot ho raha ho aaa.
To ye chirharan chal raha he idhar and unke pacho pati bethe
bethe dekh rahe the chirharan. Jaise ki aj Manmohan singh indian economy ka
chirharan hote dekh rahe he. Matlab koi pati help karne ke liye nai uth raha,
aur wobhi kaise uthate, sabha ki maryada bhi koi chij he, dharam ki avahelna ho
jati ki bhai biwi ko jue me hare he majak thodina he, jaban kibhi koi value
hoti he, chahe kal wo bolne layak na rahe.
Aur aise logo ko hum kehte he dharamraj, inhone apni wife
koi jue me laga diya, aur wo kya karte, unke pas real estate ke namese dropaddi
to thi, to wife ko jue me laga diya, usase consult bhi nai kiya ek bar bhi
udhishthir ne ,"me dropadi , hum pandav actually soch rahe the hamara tumame
jo stake he thoda kaurav kharidna cha rahe he, jue me thoda loss hogaya samajha
karo". "Dharamraj par ye kaise??". "Dropadi samjha karo gatbandhan kibhi apni alag
majburiya hoti he." Dropadi ko patahi nai. Wo to bas shringar kar rahi thi,
"sajna he mujhe, pacho ke liye…sajna he mujhe." Aur idhar guptchar ata he,
"bhabhi". "Bolo guptchar". "Bhabhi wo apko..(crying) bhabhi wo apko sabha me bula
rahe he bhabhi". "Yeto bohot achi bat he. Mujhe 5 min do me sari pehenke ati hu..
" "dekhlo bhabhi, shradha he apki. Baki jis attitude se waha log bethe he jarurat nai he."
" "dekhlo bhabhi, shradha he apki. Baki jis attitude se waha log bethe he jarurat nai he."
Thoda rewind me jate he, jahase kahani shuru hui, arjun ne
machli ki akh bhedi, aur unka dropadi se vivah kara diya gaya, aur dono chijo
me koi relation anai he, matlab machli ki akh bhedna bottom line thi to kisi fisherman se karate.
Yeto wohi bat hui aj mukesh ambani bole, "me apni beti ki
shadi next Olympic archery champion se karaunga, aur uske bhai he, to wo bhi
sathme fere le sakte he."
Matlab pehle to apne bandi ko objectify kar diya,trophy
banake dediya fir usko bat bhi lo. To mujhe lagta he dropadi ka chirharan uske
actual chirharan se pehle hi hua tha.
Arjun to jitke bhi laye thebt baki yudishtar , bhim, nakul,
sahedev wo to dropadi var thehi nai. Yudhishtir dekhiye unse waise bandiya nai
patatai, kyoki udhishir good boy the aur ap jante ho, good boys get heaven and
bad boys get women.
Yudhishthir ki shakal dekhake hi pata chal jata he ki inki
to sirf arrange marriage hi possible he. Aur ye aise log he jo arrange marriage ke
bad bhi single reh jate he, aur me hamesha sochta hu yudhishthtir hamesha sach
bolte the, to wo flirt kaise karte honge. "Suniye…kaisi lag rahi hu??" "Moti…kafi
moti taji hogayi hu tum dropadi"… "ap bhi na ..acha apko mujhe dekhake kya feel
hota he???" "Bojh, burden. Darling feel to shadi k eek do sal hi hote he baki log
badme sirf gadi hi khichte he." "You know what yudhishthir you are a looser." Aur
yudhishthur ki sachai dekhiye unhone dropadi ki bat rakhne ke liye sachem unhe
loose bhi kar diya.
Bhim bhi dropadi vardi nai the. Bhim us jamane ke sunny deol
the. Me to sochta hu unhone propose kaise kiya hoga, "dropadi me tumse bohot
pyar karta hu, I luv u very very much dropadi." "Ye bhim bhaiya ap itne despo q
sound karte he". "despo nai I luv u goddam it."
Nakul , sahedev bhi dropadi vardi nai the. Unkoto pandav hi
nai manta me. Kyoki unko apni shadi mehi nai bulaya gayatha, jab fere ho rahe
the wo kursiya laga rahe the.
To me sochta hu dropadi shadi hogayi ghar agayi, uske bad
arjun ne dropadi ko convince kaise kiya hoga, "dropadi, wo yudhishthir bhaiya
apse kuch akeleme bat akrna chahte he. Ha bhaiya andar ajao. To ap log fir bate
karo me archery ki practice karke atahu. Are apnahi ghar samjho bhaiya ..shoose
woose utardo ap."
Fir dropadi niche jhuki, "are are dropadi apki jaga mere
charno me nai, ap bethiye.."
"Bhiaya ap kuch lenge?" "Bhaiya nai apna mujhe mere 1st
nam se bulaya kijiye." "Dharamraj??" "Dharamraj nai sirf raj. Apna lagta he." "To ap
kuch lenge matlab appy, fruity koi juice??" "Wine he?? Ab dropadi meko kuch ghuma
firake bat karna ti nai, actually mena tumhe like karta hu and tumhare sath
frndship karna chahta hu."
Nyways back to central hall, jahape apna karyakram chalu
tha, dushasan jot the wo chir khich rahe the, bhim ko gussa bhi araha tha.
"Bhaiya ap kuch kar q nai rahe he." "Chill bhim chill." "Bhaiya wo meribhi patni he"…
"thi..thi bhim abto hum use har chuke he. Aur murkh to ye kaurav he jo khudki
jiti hui chij ko bhi beijjat kar rahe he." Nakul="bhaiya wo meri bhi biwi he."
"Nakul, biwi nai bhabhi he, husband to me hu, tum to ligand ho, khamkha dropadi
ke sath complex coordination banate rehte ho."
Arjun ko gussa agaya, "bhaiya bhabhi hogi apki, jitke to me
layatha"," to kya hua arjun? Harato me hu. Aur harke jitne wale ko yudhshtir
kehte he."
Benzene Ring
Chirharan ke tym dropadi jot hi wo ek benzene ring ki tarah
thi.kyuki unpe 6 logo ki najar thi, 5 pandav 1 dushasan. She was susceptible to
any incoming nucleophile, electrophiles, lone pairs, ligands. Especially
reducing agents, who could reduce out her tears. Chirharan se pehle dropadi ek
substituted benzene ring ki tarah thi, kyoki unke ortho, meta, Para positions
pe bhim, arjun aur yudhishthur substituted the. To kisi bhi incoming kaurav
type group ke liye substitution karna bada mushkil tha. Wo bhi in 3d. sp3 hybridization apko yad hoga. To pehle to
unhone pandavo ko wahase hataya, dropadi ko wapas planar banaya, taki asanise
substitution ho paye. Acha dushasan jo the wo free radical the, kyoki free
rehte the aur radical thinking thi, khulle me kam karte the sare.
To dushasan jo the chir khich rahe the,achanak Krishna
bhagvan prakat hogaye, unke hathse sari nikalne lag gayi. Wo apne jamane ke
spider man the, unke hathse puri ki puri saree hi nikalti thi, same colour ki
same printed, fall wall bhi lagi hoti thi. Wo to usdin time nai tha warna usdin
kanjiwaram hi nikalte the wo. Aur me sohta hu itni mehenat karneki kya jarurat
thi, bhai ap jo he main switch off kar dete. Batti gayi bat gayi aur andhereme
chirharan ho bhi gaya to kisko farak girega. Siway dropadi ke. Par nai. Bt mene
socha ki nai itni precious situation thi, crunch moment tha bt pressure me
thodehi thought ate he. To ap sudarshan se dropadi ki saree kat dete dushyasan
gir jata aur dropadi ko leke bhag jate. Par nai. Apne to ego pehi leli. "Saree khech
leni na tanne. Kaich. Dekho kitni khaiche aj khaich."
Ab main mudde pe atahu ki
dropadi chirharan jot ha wo practically possible hi nai he wo logo ko bewkuf banaya gaya he.Imagine kijiye me dropadi hu. Sirf imagine karna jyada dimag
nai lagana. Aur meko top angle se dekhiye. Right me dushyasan he jo chir khich
rahe he agar me anticlock wise rotate hoga to saree bhi anticlock wise lipti
hui he. Left se Krishna saree de rahe he wo mujhpe anticlockwise ghumegi jis
direction me me ghum raha hu. Now my point is ek hi direction me saree lipat bhi
rahi he nd utar bhi rahi he kaise possible he? Ye tabhi possible he jab jo
saree Krishna ke hath se nikal rahi he wo dushyasan directly khich rahe he
matlab dropadi to abtak out of picture ho chuki he par wo phir bhi ghume ja
rahi he wo abhi character mehi he. To ek point ke bad mujhe laga chirharan
dekhake ki dropadi jo he wo apni izzat bachane ke liye nai sirf apna angle of
momentum conserve karne ke liye ghumi jarahi he aur ap dekiye ki Krishna and
dushyasan jo he wo torque couple bana rahe the.
Moral:- To ye padhke exam me roational motion pe ek sum aa sakta he.
Find the total number of revolution which dropadi took after
the moment as saree came off to the moment she complete the process. Find the answer
in Radians ? find the total work done by dushyasan in the process.
Thursday, 1 August 2013
Good guys get heaven, Bad boys get Woman
Yesterday I was just thinking
about all the boys who didn’t get girlfriends yet. And they have tried hard to
impress girls but failed. This is not about those male hunks that failed to get
their 3rd or may be 4th girlfriend. This goes out for all the good
guys out there. The good guys who stay a friend and
despite how much ever they want or wish, they do not cross the fine line between sacred friendship and pure love. The good
guys will not take advantage of the girl or count out how many
times he had to wait for her to get ready for the party where he is only
escorting her as a friend. She takes him only because the guy she has a crush
on is busy with some other high nosed girl. The good guy is jeered at for being
the forever alone friend of a hot
female who does not consider him anything more than just
a friend.
The good guy talks for hours to this girl when her stupid
boyfriend breaks her heart or has hurt her for something. He will run out in
the middle of the night to get her notes photocopied or sneak in that pizza
delivery to the girl. Many times these girls use nice guys for their own stuffs to get completed. These girls use their brain, money, or play with their emotions. He does not talk dirty about her when he is with his friends or lies about them having a relationship. He will
compliment her from time to time and make her feel special, unlike that useless
mean boy she is going out with who freely ogles at other females in front of
her.
The good guy tries to hint that the bad ass guy the girl is
actually all over is ultimately going to dump her soon,
but does not stress on making her leave him. He just stands there forever as a
pillar of support and tries to protect the girl from getting hurt at all times.
The good guy knows he might be hopelessly in love with her and has
told her the same, but she wants to keep things on the “friend level”. He
agrees and gives her time. And sometimes, things do work out. The girl
understands that in this big bad world she can have this one man who will go to
all lengths to keep her happy.
But more often than not, things don’t.
In this big bad world, you really do have a special place for
yourself and everyone appreciates your strong support. They respect your
niceness and efforts and the infinite patience you display in waiting for the
girl to make up her mind.
Perhaps it is for those girls who do not value the nice ones that
most have to turn into bad ones, whom you later have to crib
about.
A salute to the good guys. And we are sure you will find the right
girl for yourself, who will respect your being good and
not underestimate the value of goodness in you.
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