Yesterday I was just thinking
about all the boys who didn’t get girlfriends yet. And they have tried hard to
impress girls but failed. This is not about those male hunks that failed to get
their 3rd or may be 4th girlfriend. This goes out for all the good
guys out there. The good guys who stay a friend and
despite how much ever they want or wish, they do not cross the fine line between sacred friendship and pure love. The good
guys will not take advantage of the girl or count out how many
times he had to wait for her to get ready for the party where he is only
escorting her as a friend. She takes him only because the guy she has a crush
on is busy with some other high nosed girl. The good guy is jeered at for being
the forever alone friend of a hot
female who does not consider him anything more than just
a friend.
The good guy talks for hours to this girl when her stupid
boyfriend breaks her heart or has hurt her for something. He will run out in
the middle of the night to get her notes photocopied or sneak in that pizza
delivery to the girl. Many times these girls use nice guys for their own stuffs to get completed. These girls use their brain, money, or play with their emotions. He does not talk dirty about her when he is with his friends or lies about them having a relationship. He will
compliment her from time to time and make her feel special, unlike that useless
mean boy she is going out with who freely ogles at other females in front of
her.
The good guy tries to hint that the bad ass guy the girl is
actually all over is ultimately going to dump her soon,
but does not stress on making her leave him. He just stands there forever as a
pillar of support and tries to protect the girl from getting hurt at all times.
The good guy knows he might be hopelessly in love with her and has
told her the same, but she wants to keep things on the “friend level”. He
agrees and gives her time. And sometimes, things do work out. The girl
understands that in this big bad world she can have this one man who will go to
all lengths to keep her happy.
But more often than not, things don’t.
In this big bad world, you really do have a special place for
yourself and everyone appreciates your strong support. They respect your
niceness and efforts and the infinite patience you display in waiting for the
girl to make up her mind.
Perhaps it is for those girls who do not value the nice ones that
most have to turn into bad ones, whom you later have to crib
about.
A salute to the good guys. And we are sure you will find the right
girl for yourself, who will respect your being good and
not underestimate the value of goodness in you.
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